I read this morning that the more you touch your baby, the better off they are. What are you supposed to do with information like that? Unload the dishwasher with a baby carrier on? Keep him in the carrier all the time for sure. But wait, he’d be even better off with your arms wrapped around him, so ditch the carrier; hold him. I didn’t hold Clark super much for the first three months just because he loved lying down by himself so much. I wonder if these studies control for other differences in a babies life like food quality, household income, parents education, etc. I’ll go read them.